By
CHRISTINA HALL
Chronicle Staff Writer
HEBRON
— When April Bailey agreed to help organize the Windham
Area Relay for Life, she thought she was doing it just to
support a good cause as well as her sister, Dawn Bailey,
a cancer survivor.
But three months ago, cancer hit the 20-year-old Hebron
resident directly when she was diagnosed with uterine and
cervical cancer.
"I
never thought it was going to be me," April Bailey
recalled during a recent interview with her sister. After
receiving the diagnosis, April Bailey said her first thought
was, "I'm going to be bald. That was my worst fear."
Then
as the diagnosis settled in and she couldn't help but think,
"Am I going to die?" This is not the first time
the Bailey family, which includes the girls' parents Leroy
and Carol Bailey, has had to deal with cancer.
At
14, Dawn Bailey — now 21 — was diagnosed with
Hodgkin's Disease after doctors found a tumor around her
heart and lungs. For 18 months Dawn Bailey underwent rigorous
treatment to fight the cancer and has been cancer free since,
although she admits the fear of cancer coming back worries
her, especially when it comes to for-annual check-ups. So,
she knows how her sister feels.
"This
wasn't something that I wanted my baby sister to go through,"
Dawn Bailey said.
The
Bailey sisters are turning their personal struggles with
cancer into something positive by helping with this weekend's
Windham Area Relay for Life at
the Eastern Connecticut State University's baseball complex.
Last year was the first year the girls got involved, at
the urging of their mother.
This
year, Dawn Bailey is "survivor chairman," helping
to recruit other survivors to participate in the relay,
organize a brunch, order pendants and a number of other
tasks.
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"It's good
moral support for people going through what I've already been
through," Dawn Bailey said of the relay. April Bailey
described the relay as her "sup-port link," and
said she and her sister will be delivering a speech, which
promises to be a tear-jerker. "I'm a sap, but if it'll
get people to come down and donate their time, then I will
stand there for hours," she said.
Both
Baileys are very vocal about the importance of the relay and
raising money to find a cure.
The
gathering of support at the relay "makes you really,
really believe that someday there will be a cure," April
Bailey said. "That someday there's not going to be anymore
little kids in the hospital hooked up to tubes and no one's
daughter, son, husband or wife will have to come home and
say, `I have cancer."'
April Bailey discovered she had cancer after a routine visit
to her gynecologist because of heavy bleeding during her menstrual
cycle.
After
learning a pap smear showed irregularities, April Bailey opted
to undergo a new procedure to treat her cancer, rather than
heading straight to chemotherapy.Doctors
cryogenically froze her uterus and removed 17 cancerous cysts.
She
will continue to get regular pap smears to see if the cancer
comes back. If it does, she may have to get chemotherapy,
or worse, have a hysterectomy.
Although
the future is uncertain for April Bailey, she is thankful
she went for regular check-ups and advises other women to
do
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